Postpartum eating disorders: how to recognize the signs and heal your relationship with food

Stephanie Poole • February 24, 2026

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After giving birth, your body changes rapidly. Weight, shape, appetite, and energy levels may feel unfamiliar. At the same time, you are adapting emotionally, hormonally, and psychologically to motherhood. If your relationship with food has become tense, controlling, or distressing during this period, you are not alone.


A postpartum eating disorder can develop even if you have never struggled with eating issues before. For many women, disordered-eating patterns begin quietly and are often mistaken for normal postpartum adjustment. Over time, however, they can affect physical recovery, mental health, and daily functioning.


If you are new here, I am Stephanie Poole, founder of Sitting in Sisterhood, and I support women through a holistic, clinically grounded therapeutic approach. If you want to understand who we are and what guides our work, you can explore holistic therapy for moms in Denver. If eating concerns are occurring alongside mood changes, you may also find support throughpostpartum depression therapy.


Understanding postpartum eating disorders



Postpartum eating disorders include a range of disordered-eating behaviors that emerge or intensify after childbirth. These may involve restrictive eating, binge-eating episodes, compulsive exercise, orthorexia, or cycles of control and loss of control around food.


Eating disorders after childbirth do not always fit classic diagnostic images. Many women continue caring for their baby and functioning outwardly while experiencing significant anxiety, guilt, or distress related to postpartum body-image changes.


Clinical guidance shows that eating disorders may appear for the first time postpartum or represent a relapse of a previous condition. Shame, fear, and concern about being judged often lead women to minimize symptoms or delay seeking help.


Postpartum eating disorders

How common are eating disorders after pregnancy?


Eating disorders after pregnancy are more common than many realize, yet they often go unnoticed or unspoken.Research shows that these challenges can persist well beyond the early months. In one study, three years after delivery, 41% of women with anorexia relapsed, 58% of women with binge eating disorder relapsed, and approximately 70% of women with bulimia nervosa relapsed. These numbers reveal how deeply intertwined the postpartum experience can be with ongoing or resurfacing eating-disorder symptoms.


This doesn’t mean that relapse or disordered eating is inevitable; it highlights how the postpartum period is a vulnerable window for many women, especially those with a personal history of food-related control or self-image concerns.


Why eating disorders can appear after birth


Emotional and physical pressures


The postpartum period carries intense social pressure. Expectations to “bounce back” postpartum, comments about weight or appearance, and social-media comparisons can heighten postpartum anxiety and body-image distress.


For some women, food becomes a way to manage fear, regain control, or cope with feeling disconnected from a changing body. These patterns are adaptive responses to stress, not failures of discipline.


Hormonal and psychological shifts


After birth, hormonal fluctuations affect appetite regulation, mood stability, and stress tolerance. Sleep deprivation further strains emotional regulation.


Evidence consistently shows a strong overlap between eating disorders after childbirth, postpartum anxiety, and depression. Changes in eating patterns often function as coping strategies when emotional needs feel unmet.


Signs and symptoms to watch for


Postpartum disordered-eating patterns can appear physically, emotionally, and behaviorally.


Physical signs


Skipping meals, calorie restriction, rigid food rules, binge eating episodes, or excessive exercise beyond what supports recovery may be present.


Additional signs include fatigue, dizziness, gastrointestinal discomfort, anemia, delayed healing, and low energy, all of which can affect postpartum recovery and breastfeeding.


Emotional signs


Guilt after eating, anxiety around food choices, fear of weight gain, body-checking behaviors, or persistent dissatisfaction with your body after pregnancy are common.


Some women experience heightened shame, irritability, or emotional numbness connected to eating or appearance.


Behavioral signs


Avoiding meals with family, eating in secret, frequent weighing, or planning daily life around food-control behaviors are key indicators.

Early recognition matters. The longer these patterns persist, the harder they are to shift without support.


The connection between postpartum depression and disordered eating


Postpartum depression and eating patterns are closely linked. Appetite changes, restrictive behaviors, or binge-eating may coexist with low mood, anxiety, panic, or emotional withdrawal.



Unresolved grief, loss of bodily trust, medical trauma, or a sense of losing control after birth can contribute to disordered-eating behaviors. Addressing both mood symptoms and eating patterns together leads to better outcomes.


Support through postpartum depression therapy can be especially helpful when these experiences overlap.


Postpartum eating disorders

How to heal and seek support



Recovery from a postpartum eating disorder is not about fixing your body. It involves addressing the emotional, physiological, and relational factors shaping your relationship with food.


Talk about it


Speaking openly with a therapist, healthcare provider, partner, or support group reduces isolation and shame. Support is appropriate long before a crisis point.


Nourish without guilt


Postpartum recovery requires consistent nourishment to support healing, hormonal regulation, and mental health. Flexible, gentle nutrition helps rebuild trust in your body.


Practice self-compassion


Reducing self-criticism and unrealistic expectations is part of recovery. Your body has carried and delivered a baby. Healing does not follow a fixed timeline.


Build a support network


Effective care often involves a multidisciplinary team, including a therapist, dietitian, and medical provider. Emotional support matters as much as nutritional guidance.

If mood symptoms are present, postpartum depression therapy can help address the emotional roots of postpartum eating-disorder behaviors.


Tips for loved ones


Warning signs in new mothers may include anxiety around food, rigid routines, withdrawal during meals, or frequent body-focused comments.


Support helps most when it avoids appearance-based remarks and encourages professional care rather than advice or reassurance.


Professional resources and helplines


The National Eating Disorders Association offers education, screening tools, and referrals.
Postpartum Support International
provides specialized postpartum mental-health support.
Local therapy directories and telehealth services can connect you with perinatal specialists.

You can also explore therapy for women in Denver to support integrative postpartum care.


Hello! I’m Stephanie Poole

Licensed clinical social worker and board-certified health and wellness coach. 

I support overwhelmed moms in reconnecting to their inner strengths and healing emotional struggles that arise in the postpartum period.

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